As Baby G begins to walk I am continually amazed by the process. It is unbelievable to think I am witnessing him learn something that will be an integral part of his life.
I realized this new phase is bringing me inspiration and lessons for my own life.
1. Be Bold. He doesn’t walk cautiously. He throws himself (literally) into every attempt. Today at Gymboree he would have walked off the side of a bridge if I had not stopped him.
2. Don’t Be Discouraged and Don’t Give Up. Baby G falls. He falls a lot. But he keeps getting up and trying again. Most of us lose this trait as adults. If we failed that often we would quit. Luckily, I don’t know of anyone who doesn’t walk today because they got fed up trying to learn as a baby.
3. Give Those You Love Room to Make Mistakes and Grow. This one is for me. I don’t want Baby G to fall. Ever. I am learning, and will probably be learning my entire life, to let him go and have confidence in himself. Except when he almost walks off a bridge. Or the couch. Or the bed. Or through the doggy door.
4. Turn to Others When You Need Support and You Will Get Farther (and Further). Almost as often as Baby G is taking off on his own, he holding on to my finger for balance. With my help he can walk the distance of the room instead of a few wobbly steps.
5. When Things Get Too Tough, Mommy Will Make it Better. Sometimes the fall is too hard or he can’t get over the dog like he wants. A hug from mommy always makes him okay and ready to try again.
